I talked to a friend yesterday, and we started talking about the evolution of love. Sometimes I wish it was back in the old days, where guys and girls were forced to get married. I mean at first they didn\'t like eachother but, after taking eachother through sick and hard times, they learn to love eachother. It grew on them. These days love is very hard to find, but it is possible. Thing is with today\'s relationships, people dump another person when having a hard time, but every couple has that, and if u love eachother, dont give up. I told her it should be like How to lose a guy in 10 days or something like that. Let me tell u how it went, they both used eachother, he used her to get a raise, and she used him to get a raise. It was going downhill till their \"family therapist\" tells her to go meet his family. When that happened, I think of it as he was opening himself to her, to meet his family, his hobbies (bullshit), what he likes doing. And after he opened up himself to her, she opened up to him back. See I think about sex, is something you should do when you know you love somebody. And only then. Why waste your body, on someone who doesn\'t respect ur mind. I mean after \"doing it\" again and again you get sick of it wouldn\'t you think. And when you do find someone you love, you dont really have anything to give him or her. I mean, you should give urself to that someone you love. I mean for people who do have sex, whats so special that your going to give to the guy you love, I mean you\'ve already givin ur body for sex to some guy that thought you were hot. I mean its like saying to the guy you love, ur just as special as the guy who screwed me in high school cause we thought eachother was hot. I think if ur gonna do it, make sure you love him or her, and will always be there for them. When you do its like giving urself away, so make sure, your always gonna be there when shes sad, happy, and mad. They deserve it. Not only is the innitials bf and gf, for boyfriend, and girlfriend, but it should be for best friend and great friend. This is my opinion, and i\'ve been thru this. And I made sure it was someone i love, and were still the bestest pals. And we still take care of eachother thru the hardest times.